I have a cabbage patch doll from childhood named Emma Charlotte
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Take a look at how often the names "Emma" and "Charlotte" appear on each state's top three names for girls.
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Ask a Manager is collectively losing their shit over how people flush toilets
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There's a few people in that thread adamantly going up and down asserting that, duh, how could the rest of us be so dumb as to not know that certain types of toilets are specifically designed to be flushed with the foot. None of them have provided any sort of evidence for this claim, which makes me think that their evidence boils down to "Mommy told me when I was a kid" or "Well, I flush with a foot so I just sort of assumed", and - man, I hate when people do that. Fucking back up your claims, or at least qualify them. "I was told by my preschool teacher, but I've never verified it" would be a lot more honest and less annoying.
Anyway, I have emailed the manufacturer most often mentioned in the comments to ask for their opinion. Mostly because that is how things ought to be done, but also because if these flushers are designed to be flushed with the foot, great, but if not then we have to ask if the other contingent, which is equally vociferously asserting that foot flushing increases wear and tear on the mechanism and causes breakdowns, needs to be taken seriously. Because what's really not okay is breaking the toilet for everybody who comes after you - and sure, you'll say that you are not the sole person responsible for breaking the toilet that much faster, but c'mon, everybody says that.
So let's see what we see, and in the meantime, let's also all wash our hands. With soap and water, thanks.
Birdfeeding
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I fed the birds. I've seen a mixed flock of sparrows and house finches, a catbird, a starling, and a young fox squirrel. I heard a blue jay screaming but didn't see it.
I put out water for the birds.
I put out the flats of pots and watered them.
EDIT 5/19/25 -- We went shopping. I have 2 new water pans for the giant pots, 4 new large-ish pots, and 2 bags of composed manure. I still need to get more of the Evergreen potting soil, though.
EDIT 5/19/25 -- I took a few pictures of flowers.
I've seen two young fox squirrels chasing each other.
EDIT 5/19/25 -- I trimmed grass where I will put one of the giant pots.
EDIT 5/19/25 -- I filled the giant pot with half composted manure and half potting soil, then planted a pot of 2 zucchini plants.
EDIT 5/19/25 -- I trimmed grass where I will put the second giant pot.
EDIT 5/19/25 -- I filled the giant pot with half composted manure and half potting soil, then planted a pot of 2 straightneck yellow squash plants.
EDIT 5/19/25 -- I watered the giant pots and the picnic table garden.
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Well, Sebastian has still not been seen (except by my down the block neighbor)
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Poetry Fishbowl Report for May 6, 2025
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Participation was up considerably, with 6 comments on LiveJournal and another 41 on Dreamwidth. A total of 12 people sent prompts.
Read Some Poetry!
The following poems from the May 6, 2025 Poetry Fishbowl have been posted:
"The Care and Feeding of Supervillains"
"A Lens of Ice"
"The More Bizarre It Gets"
"Ruling from Beneath"
"Show My True Colors"
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Unsold Poems for the May 6, 2025 Poetry Fishbowl
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Poem: "A Lens of Ice"
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Warning: This poem contains intense and controversial topics. Highlight to read the more detailed warnings, some of which are spoilers. It includes bullying, bigotry, theft, a fistfight, frank discussion of superpowers, angst, and other challenges. If these are sensitive issues for you, please consider your tastes and headspace before reading onward. It follows "Sadness Like a Battle Flag" and "Your Own Blissful Path," so this will make more sense if you have read those first.
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The Irregulars (part 1 of 1, complete)
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By Dialecticdreamer/Sarah Williams
Part 1 of 1, complete
Word count (story only): 1769
:: Pay Special Attention: HANKY WARNING! Discussions of family-focused grief, and a few reasons why such grief developed. Specific mention of a crib death and miscarriages, and violation of a teen father’s rights, among other forms of parent-child grief. ::
“First meeting?” a woman asked, her rectangular face softening as she smiled. “Welcome to The Irregulars.”
Kimberly nodded shyly. “My family would absolutely flip their--” She broke off, hissing under her breath, then took a slow breath. “They’d lose their minds if I were seen attending a ‘nontraditional grief support group,” she explained.
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Artificial Intelligence
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As Business Insider first reported, the results were dismal. The best-performing model was Anthropic's Claude 3.5 Sonnet, which struggled to finish just 24 percent of the jobs assigned to it. The study's authors note that even this meager performance is prohibitively expensive, averaging nearly 30 steps and a cost of over $6 per task.
Google's Gemini 2.0 Flash, meanwhile, averaged a time-consuming 40 steps per finished task, but only had an 11.4 percent rate of success — the second highest of all the models. The worst AI employee was Amazon's Nova Pro v1, which finished just 1.7 percent of its assignments at an average of almost 20 steps.
While corporations may wish to replace human employees with software, it is not yet feasible for complex tasks. Only the simplest jobs are really at risk.
Birdfeeding
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I fed the birds. I've seen a mixed flock of sparrows and house finches.
I put out water for the birds.
I put out the flats of pots and watered them.
EDIT 5/18/25 -- We drilled drain holes in the 2 giant pots we bought yesterday. I'm wondering if one would work as a water garden, for future reference.
EDIT 5/18/25 -- While working on various projects, I saw a young fox squirrel on the hopper feeder, who has absolutely no sense of self-preservation and stayed put while I walked past within arm's reach.
EDIT 5/18/25 -- I intended to fill up one of the giant pots, only to discover that I'm almost out of composted manure. :/
So instead I moved the flats of wildflowers from the ground at the west end of the new picnic table to the ground east of it, then trimmed grass at the west end so I can later set up the tall planter with shelves.
EDIT 5/18/25 -- I got a bit more yardwork done.
EDIT 5/18/25 -- I set up the tall planter with shelves at the west end of the new picnic table. I haven't put any pots on it yet.
EDIT 5/18/25 -- I watered the strawberry towers.
EDIT 5/18/25 -- I've seen a blue jay and a starling.
EDIT 5/18/25 -- I trimmed brush around the patio.
EDIT 5/18/25 -- I trimmed brush around the barrel garden and a few other places.
I brought in the flats of pots.
As it is getting dark, I am done for the night.
To remind us of the world that we lost
May. 18th, 2025 11:44 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Friday night I finished the second Classic Doctors New Monsters 2 with Day Of The Vashta Nerada which may be my fav of the four stories. It’s an Eighth Doctor story and the audios of him always make me sad he never got a full televised series. But this was such a great story obviously it’s inspired by Jurassic park (one of the guys even has a name similar to Nedry).
Also yesterday I finished the year of Night Vale I was listening too and damn, I’m so glad that the university of what it is arc is over cause I hated Doctor Lubelle (even more so in those last ep) but damn her fate felt so fitting and so satisfying.
The rest of the day was spent distracting myself by watching Murder She Wrote and playing fortnite and generally avoiding the internet causa spoilers cause we get major warnings that something was going down.
Thoughts on the Doctor Who ep, The Interstellar Song contest which despite the name is not the fun camp ep you might expect. (And there’s gonna be major spoilers cause it’s an ep that, again surprisingly, has some)
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After that I watched the actual song contest and, like before it was good but felt… I dunno. And then there was the end were Isreal somehow came second and it’s obvious that it’s down to Zionists just voting en masse and rigging the system. Thankfully they didn’t win and Austria did but it’s still disappointing both they were there and people were giving then 12’s.
Bleh.
Today I watched Rogue One which I wanted to do after Andor, as many others have cause it’s the number 1 film on Disney+ right now. And damn the whole thing is so good but I’m surprised how many things just.l. Gave me extra feels this time. It wasn’t just the scenes with Cassian (especially the last one), it was Galen’s message, it was the sense that so much was sacrificed to get to this point. And also that Krennic had a very bad not good few days with leaks and how he ended up screwed over just like Dedra did. (And damn him saying ‘Who are you?’ too)
Now it’s time to poke the laptop before dnd and then… who knows?
Done Since 2025-05-11
May. 18th, 2025 03:13 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
So, not a bad week. (Can I accurately call it a "pretty good" week? I'm never able to make judgements like that.) But I did some guitar practice, and got out for a walk four times, and sang a little with m, who came back from the US last Sunday (bringing mail that had accumulated at our US address). N came back from New York yesterday; she gave me a little "engraving and drill pen" as an unbirthday present -- it had arrived while she was gone. j came over as well, so we had all of my Dutch family here. G made baked salmon.
Apparently I totally forgot about posting Thankful Thursday this week. Well, Thursday was pretty eventful, with a urology appointment (I can expect to hear back a week from Wednesday about what my ongoing treatment will be), some singing practice with m, and actually performing the songs we'd practiced at Eurofilk. (Is "at" the right word for attending an event by zoom?)
... and forgot to mention Mother's Day in last week's post, though that's not terribly surprising, since I have no-one to call anymore.
Yesterday I finally stopped waffling and (finally!) pre-ordered a Framework 12" Laptop. I've been eyeing it for some time, and coveting a Framework for years. I increased the specs over what I'd initially configured, but because I'd waffled over it I won't get it until Q3 sometime. Bah! I'll post a lot more once it finally ships.
Also, yesterday was the International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia; there's that. Some more trans-related links under Saturday. And today is the 45th anniversary of the 1980 eruption of Mount St. Helens. (Which of course sent me down a rabbit-hole involving magma, hollow-Earth fiction, and so on.)
As for links, here from yesterdat is a list of The world's five happiest cities for 2025. Look for your hometown in the Institute for Quality of Life's Happy City Index 2025. Den Haag ranks #65, and Seattle is #80.
Summer of the 69
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"Babes in the Pineywoods" is now complete!
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Creative Jam
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What I Have Written:
From My Prompts:
A Sleepless Night (part 1 of 1, complete)
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By Sarah Williams
Part 1 of 1, complete
Word count (story only): 1156
[Landing #7, day 1, VERY late at night]
:: Anita can’t sleep. As it turns out, neither can Backstep. They have a tentative conversation, but soon fall into much deeper concepts. Part of the Sidestep Travelers series. ::
Anita tiptoed into the kitchen, one hand rubbing at the base of her neck. She paused as she reached for the light switch, focusing on the teenager curled on the floor, cradling a steaming mug in both hands. “The chairs don’t bite,” Anita whispered, and tried on an awkward smile. “Can’t sleep?”
“I have nightmares, sometimes,” Backstep admitted. “If you need a light, go ahead. I don’t think I’ll be getting any more sleep tonight.”
“I haven’t gotten to sleep yet,” Anita admitted, still whispering. She flicked on the light with a wince.
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Creative Jam
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Crowdfunding Creative Jam
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